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智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头

2022-01-11 13:51:46


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智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头

生活总是充满酸甜苦辣,懂得笑着低下头的,都是聪明人。

有人问左宗棠:“天地之间的距离是多少?”

左宗棠回答:“三尺。”

提问者不以为然道:“我们每个人都超过三尺,如果天地间止有三尺,天空岂不都是窟窿?”

左宗棠回答说:“所以啊,我们学会了低头。”

学会低头,百事可为。

低头不是软弱,不是无能,而是一种气度,一种智慧,一种修养。

Life is always full of ups and downs. Those who know how to laugh and bow their heads are smart people.

Someone asked Zuo Zongtang, "What is the distance between heaven and earth?"

Zuo Zongtang answered, "Three feet."

The questioner disapproved and said, "Each of us is more than three feet. If there are only three feet between heaven and earth, would not the sky be all holes?"

Zuo Zongtang answered, "So, we learned to bow our heads."

Learn to bow, Pepsi can do.

Head down is not weakness, not incompetence, but a kind of demeanor, a kind of wisdom, a kind of accomplishment.

智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头

笑着低头,是一种智慧

人生总会遇到不顺心的事,低头不是自卑,不是懦弱,而是一种智慧。

笑着低头,就是把目光放长远,不计较一时成败。笑着低头,就是保存自己。

我们常说“留得青山在,不怕没柴烧”,生活中很多事需要迂回。

不要把生命活成直挺挺的木板,要活成一根橡皮筋,能屈能伸,才能有所作为。

左宗棠年轻时,一心想进仕途,但他在科考路上屡屡失意。

面对这种情况,左宗棠没有与科举考试一味死磕,而是笑着低头,迂回前进。

他开始将精力用在经世致用方面,与朝廷重臣相交,形成了较远大的战略眼光,这些都足以改变他的人生轨迹。

学会笑着低头,不要一味横冲直撞。

老话说“智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头”,笑着低头,就是收敛自己的锋芒,做到以柔克刚。

学会笑着低头,做事沉得住气,不要急躁,遇到困难忍受暂时的委屈。

成功不是蛮干出来的,而是要在困难中总结经验教训。

It's wisdom to laugh and bow your head.

Life always encounters unpleasant things, bowing is not inferiority, not cowardice, but a kind of wisdom.

To laugh and bow your head is to take a long-term view, regardless of temporary success or failure. To laugh and bow your head is to save yourself.

We often say, "Keep the green hills, don't be afraid of no firewood." Many things in life need to be circuitous.

Don't live your life as a straight board, but as a rubber band, you can only make a difference if you can bend and stretch.

When Zuo Zongtang was young, he wanted to enter the official career, but he was often frustrated on the road of scientific research.

Faced with this situation, Zuo Zongtang did not blindly stumble with the imperial examination, but laughed and bowed his head, circuitous forward.

He began to devote his energies to the practical use of the world. He interacted with the important ministers of the court and formed a bigger strategic vision, which was enough to change the trajectory of his life.

Learn to laugh and bow your head. Don't just run wild.

As the old saying goes, "A wise man is kind and condescending, and a fool is strong and stretching his head." To laugh and bow his head is to restrain his own edge and to be flexible and rigid.

Learn to laugh and bow your head, do things calmly, don't be impatient, endure temporary grievances when facing difficulties.

Success is not a matter of brutality, but of summing up experience and lessons from difficulties.

智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头

笑着低头,是一种豁达

除了做事,与人相处也要学会低头,“得饶人处且饶人”。

每个人都不是圣人,大家都有犯错的可能,何必揪着别人的过错不放,给别人添堵,让自己不痛快呢。

人都是相互的,没有人可以生活在只有自己的世界,做人要将心比心。

一个人真正成熟,不在年龄,而是学会低头。对待咄咄逼人的话语,别上火,对自己犯的错,勇于承担。

左宗棠晚年脾气火爆,自己的错不认,别人的错不饶。在官场多年,左宗棠得罪了不少人,这也成为仕途前进的阻力。

在左宗棠入朝的一段时间里,朝中诸大臣“群起侮弄之,或举其可笑之端编为小诗,转相谐谑”。

左宗棠也意识到与人交往要学会低头吃亏,他曾说“与人共事,要学吃亏。终身让畔,不失一段。”

学会笑着低头,在不涉及原则的问题上学会退让。

生活没那么多你死我活,低头是一种素养,更是一种豁达的胸襟。

主动低头吃点亏,其实是一种隐性投资。

It's an open-minded way to laugh and bow your head.

In addition to doing things, we should also learn to bow when we get along with others.

Everyone is not a saint. Everyone has the possibility of making mistakes. Why should we hold on to other people's mistakes, add clogging to others and make ourselves unhappy?

People are mutual. No one can live in a world of his own. To be a man, one should compare one's heart with another's.

A person is really mature, not in age, but learn to bow. When dealing with aggressive words, don't get angry and take responsibility for your mistakes.

Zuo Zongtang was hot-tempered in his later years. He didn't acknowledge his own mistakes and others'mistakes. For many years in official circles, Zuo Zongtang offended many people, which also became a resistance to the progress of official career.

During the period of Zuo Zongtang's entry into the dynasty, the ministers in the dynasty "flocked together to make fun of it, or put the ridiculous end of it into a poem, turning to banter".

Zuo Zongtang also realized that people should learn to bow their heads and suffer losses. He once said, "To work with people, we should learn to suffer losses." Let's give up for a lifetime.

Learn to laugh and bow your head. Learn to give in on issues that do not involve principles.

Life is not so much you die and live, bowing is a kind of accomplishment, but also a kind of open-minded.

Actively bowing down and losing money is actually a kind of implicit investment.

智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头

笑着低头,是一种低调

笑着低头,是一种谦虚。孔子说“三人行,必有我师”,每个人都有你值得学习的地方。

要知道人外有人,天外有天,学会低头,低调做人,不是坏事。

左宗棠题写过许多对联,其中一副的下联是这么一句话“择高处立,就平处坐,向宽处行”。

这句话在强调立志当高远的同时,也强调人要低调。

学会低头,才能出头。低下头来是认识到自身的不足,沉下心来丰富自己,不浮躁。

低下头才能踏踏实实做事,才能使自己站得更稳。

做人做事不耍小聪明,让自己时刻处于谦虚状态,兢兢业业才能不负人生。

低调处世,心怀谦卑,在低调与低头中修炼自己,看似平淡,其实是最高深的处世之道。

生活总是充满酸甜苦辣,懂得笑着低下头的,都是聪明人。

Laughing and bowing is a kind of low-key

Laughing and bowing is a kind of modesty. Confucius said, "There must be my teacher when three people walk." Everyone has something worth learning.

It is not a bad thing to learn to bow down and be low-key.

Zuo Zongtang wrote many couplets in his inscriptions, one of which is the following line: "Stand high, sit flat and walk wide".

This sentence emphasizes not only lofty aspirations, but also low-key people.

Learn to bow before you can get ahead. To bow one's head is to realize one's own shortcomings, to enrich oneself by sinking one's heart, and not to be impetuous.

Only when you bow your head can you do things steadily and make yourself stand more steadily.

Do things without being smart, keep yourself humble all the time, and be conscientious in order to live up to life.

Low-key life, humility, in low-key and low-headed self-cultivation, seemingly plain, in fact, the deepest way of life.

Life is always full of ups and downs. Those who know how to laugh and bow their heads are smart people.

智者善屈尊,愚人强伸头

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